In social contexts, "transgender woman" is the appropriate and respectful term. Many performers in this niche identify as women who are attracted to other women (trans-lesbians). Industry Trends
From the ballroom culture of Pose to the mainstream success of stars like Laverne Cox and Hunter Schafer, trans narratives are moving away from "tragedy" and toward "triumph and complexity."
For much of the 1970s and 80s, the mainstream gay rights agenda sidelined trans issues, viewing them as “too radical” or likely to alienate straight allies. This led to the infamous expulsion of trans people from the 1973 Christopher Street Liberation Day march. Rivera famously gave a defiant speech: “You all tell me, ‘Go and hide in your room. We don’t want you.’ Well, I’ve been beaten. I’ve had my nose broken. I’ve been thrown in jail. I’ve lost my job. I’ve lost my apartment for gay liberation—and you all treat me this way?”
In broader LGBTQ spaces, “passing privilege” creates invisible hierarchies. A trans woman who passes as cisgender may be welcomed into lesbian bars or gay male spaces without incident, while a non-passing trans person may face stares, misgendering, or exclusion. This mirrors the racism within early gay culture, where light-skinned patrons were favored. Consequently, trans activists constantly push the LGBTQ community to move beyond aesthetics and focus on radical inclusion of all gender expressions, not just the palatable ones.