However, Argov argues that this behavior often backfires. When a woman cancels her own plans, suppresses her opinions, and makes the man the center of her universe, she inadvertently lowers her value in his eyes. In the book, Argov posits that men respect what they have to work for. A woman who says "yes" to everything demonstrates that she has no boundaries, and without boundaries, there is no challenge, and subsequently, no respect.
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: A central theme is that men are more likely to commit when they feel they are "winning" a woman's affection rather than being pursued. However, Argov argues that this behavior often backfires